It’s been a long time since I have written something from the heart that wasn’t a planned post or photograph. It’s been so long since I’ve been inspired. But in the wake of the ruling on Brock Turner, the rapist from Stanford University, I, as I’m sure many other survivors of sexual crime do, have something to say.
First of all, I am deeply sickened and saddened at the leaniency withwhich the ruling on this case was handled. What you’re telling rapists everywhere is that there is only a small price to pay for drastically altering someone’s life in a horrible way. It has been six years since my assault and while I have sought counseling and have found healing, I still have flashbacks that paralyze me and can sometimes put me in a rut personally and within my current romantic relationship for weeks.
All this talk of Brock Turner has women who have been assaulted and/or raped all over the world in flashbacks of the monstrosities that happened to them. To say that having Brock Turner serve any more time than the meager few months he was sentenced with would drastically alter his life is THE WORST REASON YOU COULD HAVE CHOSEN TO USE! Because quite frankly NO ONE except he and his family care about the outcome of his life ESPECIALLY when you have the life of this poor woman altered forever. She may be able to find healing, she may be able to move on with her life but what Brock Turner did will always remain a part of her story.
The ruling on this case has set America back light years. We have come to a place as a nation where we have transgender bathrooms and tattoos are openly allowed in the work place but we can’t get justice for an unconscious female being forced into sexual acts with a man?! Where is the justice people? Where are the principles our country was founded on? I don’t care who Brock Turner was before he forced himself on this woman, the moment he decided to intoxicate himself and rape someone he gave up his right to the future he was making for himself. It’s something we learn as kids, all actions have consequences and you have the ability to choose how you want to act. He is now a criminal and should be treated as such. He may never do this crime again but the point is that for Jane Doe, it happened and her life will FOREVER be changed.
Even if he was on pace to be an Olymic swimmer, that is an honor and a privelige to get to represent your country on an international level. I pray to God that America at least has enough sense about us that we don’t allow him to get to the point of representing our beautiful country in that way.
We need to take a stand as a country and protest this ridiculousness. Sexual acts without consent is NEVER ok. Intoxication is in fact, and absolute NO NO. Why do we have to even talk about this. I don’t care about how he feels. He doesn’t deserve the pity of Americans like his family seems to think. Sign the petition to impeach the judge whose ruling over the case was way too lenient in order to not affect his swimming career. Don’t let Brock Turner Represent America in the olympics now or ever. He gave up that privilege when he chose to take advantage of an intoxicated woman.